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What Does It Take To Get Your Life Back?

Ever notice how addicting being involved with an addict or alcoholic can be? The up and down of it that’s almost like an adrenalin rush; the feeling of panic when you are waiting for the addict to come home; the frustration of trying so hard to get through to someone who appears to be completely [...]

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Forgiveness and Recovery

The textbook of AA, referred to as the Big Book, talks about the detrimental effect that resentment can have on a person’s recovery. For the co-addict or co-alcoholic, the effect of resentment may not start a binge or substance relapse, but can turn into a codependent relapse that can get the whole family off kilter!
Yes, [...]

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Have You Been In Recovery For Awhile?

Are you trying to figure out if there is more to your life than what you have experienced so far?
Do you know why you are here? What your own specific life purpose truly is?
Isn’t it time you found out?
If you think there is more and have been looking in all the wrong places, that [...]

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Confront Your Addict! Part One of A Series

So, you’ve been in Alanon or Naranon for awhile and somehow you’ve gotten the idea that your recovery requires that you live your own life to such an extent that you don’t confront or speak honestly with your addict about what is going on with them.
You think, in fact, that if you tell them [...]

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You are not your addict – letting go of shame

Are you related to an active addict whose behavior you find less than acceptable?
One of the challenges of being in relationship with some actively addicted, no matter what the substance or behavior, can be dealing with the feelings their actions bring up in you. Feelings like embarrassment, fear, horror, shock and shame can become your [...]

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So, What Can Be Done, Beyond The Steps, To Fill That Inner Hole?

In the last two or three posts, we talked about the disease of more and how it affects both co-addicts and addicts, often leading to addiction switching and the many miseries associated with moving from one negative behavior to another.
In this post, let’s look at what can be done to fill that hole positively, so [...]

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Living Life One Day At A Time

When I think about the challenges we face in terms of how many years it took to create them and how many years it could take to correct their results, I feel overwhelmed. But when I look at today, and all that I am doing to make my world work better right in this moment, [...]

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