When the word “Party” Used to Be Safe…
When I was growing up (which wasn’t that long ago at all), and I told my parents that I was invited to a party, they weren’t worried. They knew that all of my friends were good kids who came from “good, wholesome homes”. Failing that, they also knew that I wasn’t the type of person who would ever dabble in drugs or alcohol. Nowadays, however, when a child tells their parent that he or she is going to a party, what does the word “party” mean? Certainly the meaning of this word has changed from going to someone’s house where there is harmless music, television, food and occasional dancing to a place where someone’s parents aren’t home and you can wreak havoc for a while without getting in trouble for it.
At one of these so-called “parties” that I went to in high school, I remember my shock when someone (who was barely invited) showed up with liquor and cigarettes. Suddenly, everyone around me was drinking and smoking.
I didn’t participate.
But this isn’t a story about how I was a “goody-two-shoes” for sticking to the straight and narrow. Rather, this is an example of how easy it is for children to become involved in drugs and alcohol from a young age. One of my best friends was at that party and smoked her first cigarette there. Only a few months later, after cigarette smoke was boring, she turned to other things such as marijuana use, LSD and ‘E’.
Not all cases end up like the situation that my friend found herself in; but they all have the potential to. Kids need to be more well informed, not just about the inherent dangers that drug and alcohol abuse possess; they also need to know that there are other, healthier alternatives for dealing with stress, emotional issues and the overall awkwardness that comes with being a teenager.
When I was growing up (which wasn’t that long ago at all), and I told my parents that I was invited to a party, they weren’t worried. They knew that all of my friends were good kids who came from “good, wholesome homes”. Failing that, they also knew that I wasn’t the type of person who would ever dabble in drugs or alcohol. Nowadays, however, when a child tells their parent that he or she is going to a party, what does the word “party” mean? Certainly the meaning of this word has changed from going to someone’s house where there is harmless music, television, food and occasional dancing to a place where someone’s parents aren’t home and you can wreak havoc for a while without getting in trouble for it.
At one of these so-called “parties” that I went to in high school, I remember my shock when someone (who was barely invited) showed up with liquor and cigarettes. Suddenly, everyone around me was drinking and smoking.
I didn’t participate.
But this isn’t a story about how I was a “goody-two-shoes” for sticking to the straight and narrow. Rather, this is an example of how easy it is for children to become involved in drugs and alcohol from a young age. One of my best friends was at that party and smoked her first cigarette there. Only a few months later, after cigarette smoke was boring, she turned to other things such as marijuana use, LSD and ‘E’.
Not all cases end up like the situation that my friend found herself in; but they all have the potential to. Kids need to be more well informed, not just about the inherent dangers that drug and alcohol abuse possess; they also need to know that there are other, healthier alternatives for dealing with stress, emotional issues and the overall awkwardness that comes with being a teenager.

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